Stick to neutral subjects — like mentioning a common ground you share based on something you read in her profile.

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My buddy thinks you’re real and now we have a $20 bet going. ” — Kristin, 26The problem..the solution: Aside from the fact that this is a pathetic pickup line, it’s certainly never going to work. The scenario: “I went on a few dates with a guy I met online, and I eventually decided we weren’t compatible, so I was honest with him.

A lot of women are looking for something serious and have no interest in participating in your immature wager with friends. He refused to accept it and continued to message me listing all the reasons why we’d be great together.” — Ashley, 30The problem..the solution: No matter how strongly you feel about your potential with a woman you meet online, accept the break-up gracefully.

A good rule of thumb: if you aren’t available for a date within 7 days of sending the message, don’t send it.

The scenario: “I recently received a message that said, ‘Damn you’re a pretty white girl, you into muscular black men?

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