It is not so when quitting crossdressing is made as a voluntary choice.

(Side note: I actually read a while ago of someone who became paralyzed and did not get to make this a voluntary choice.

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It has been 2 years and 10 months now without crossdressing.

I continue to live sober and somewhat more peacefully.

Thank you so much for all of you who have commented since my last post.

I can also say that it is ok though, because I have been able to live my life relatively peaceably in spite of the desires.

I believe it is important, at least for me, to admit that the desire remains.

When I started this path, I had hoped that by now the desire would have left. But knowing that it works like this over time helps me have healthy expectations and not feel overwhelmed or taken by surprise when a wave or cycle hits.

Realizing that these waves and cycles happens helps me to not give in, and reminds me that there are seasons and I have made it through some before, and can again.

It is something I enjoyed in its way and time, but have chosen to lose.