Your partner and his or her ex should be willing to take a break from each other while you two concentrate on what you have together.

It doesn’t have to be a permanent break, but it is the respectful thing to do. During orgasm, the mind is totally uninhibited, making it easier for someone else’s name to slip out, Gray says.

But, Sherman says, it's time to let go of the reminders when the feelings are resolved.

Your partner doesn't need to set the favorite sweatshirt and all those love letters out on the curb. As for photos on display, it’s one thing to have a group picture that includes a past partner on the wall.

That kind of a mistake usually suggests unresolved feelings for an ex.

Looking at souvenirs from a relationship is part of the healing process.

I wish to help as most people as possible change their life around and have financial redemption.

Holding on to previous romantic attachments creates feelings of distrust and can stymie an otherwise promising relationship.

So are you wondering if your honey's heart still rests in the hands of a past love?

There’s no way to know for sure without talking to your partner about your concerns.

One of the symptoms of not being ready to move on is the “I love you, but I’m not in love with you” talk. ’ it can build a barrier to moving forward,” Gray says.