Domestic violence is the second leading killer of women fifteen to forty-four in the U. Patricia Gaddis alerts readers to the prevalence of violence and describes the danger signs to watch for dating relationships.

A Borderline will often line up her next romance while she's still involved with You.

In short, her bed never gets cold~ so if you notice that she's started up with another guy immediately, it's likely because she'd cultivated that relationship before she broke up with you.

You may be extremely accomplished and successful--but the Borderline will methodically learn what's when a woman leaves--but a Borderline leaves you feeling guilty, ashamed, castrated, unlovable, emasculated, worthless, etc.

You start believing that if she returns, you'll be able to get rid of these horrible sensations, and feel okay again.

Don't expect her to admit to this, as she never will.

Certain aspects or common denominators are present in males who attach to Borderlines.

You might be willing to accommodate this routine, but give serious weight to this disparity between her words and actions--and let it be a warning flag of what's to follow!

The Waif may also use physical ailments as excuses to leave you hanging out to dry--and there you sit, with your dick in your hand.

They've become automatic, and they're as easy/natural as breathing for her.