A politely worded inquiry should prompt a t-girl to let you know exactly what term she considers most appropriate.If you must use a term, rather than a person's name, perhaps the term transgendered is the least offensive of all the terms.Most t-girls are good people, but there are those who should be avoided. - You must screen your t-girl friends just as you would screen any other potential friends or lovers.

This is a generic term that fits most t-girls and is rarely offensive.

Whether in person or in writing, making a good first impression is critical for success.

The subject of safe sex also cannot be overemphasized.

We believe in a responsibility of all people to engage in safe sex. If you follow these tips, I assure you there is someone out there who can't wait to find you!

Be honest and forthright in your communications and expect the same from others.

I say it is definitely worth spending a little time getting to know someone, rather than rushing into a meeting that could be unpleasant, or even disastrous.

Some t-girls are looking for men, others are looking for women. Some live full-time as females, others live part-time as females. Remember that you're looking for someone who will compliment what you're looking for and your job is to narrow the field to those who are looking for someone just like you!

Use proper terminology - You will quickly learn that not all t-girls like being called shemales.

When you are e-mailing, chatting online or exchanging Instant Messages, you must rely on mere words to make a good first impression.